Siva is in All, Blessing and Pervading Each Soul.

Siva is in all: the worshipping couple and priests, the student, the fashionista, the wealthy woman and the two men arguing about God.

Image of Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami
If you see something in someone else you do not like and it is affecting you emotionally, sit down and face it within your own subconscious mind.
—Gurudeva