Tirukural

CHAPTER 81

Old Familiarity

801

What is old familiarity? It is when neither friend objects to liberties taken by the other.§

802

Liberties taken by a friend are friendship’s rightful possession; to allow them is the willing duty of wise men.§

803

What is the purpose of long-standing fellowship if friends’ familiar actions are not accepted as one’s own?§

804

Familiar with familiarity, the wise are never annoyed when friends do things without asking.§

805

When friends do things that hurt you, attribute it to unawareness or to the privileges of friendship.§

806

Bound by brotherhood, true friends never break their bond with an old comrade, even if he brings them loss.§

807

Old friends do not forsake loving fellowships, even when those they cherish happen to do them harm.§

808

An intimate of any strength will never listen to faults said of friends; and on the day a friend offends, he is content to keep silent.§

809

The world cherishes faithful men who never forsake old friendships, worn by time but unbroken.§

810

Even ill-wishers will wish those well who never abandon affection for old friends.§