A Character Building Workbook

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Watch here—bit.ly/compassion11—a TED Talk by Rabbi Tabick, who lauds the virtue of compassion but acknowledges the challenges to its execution, explaining how a balance of compassion and justice allows us to do good deeds and keep our sanity.§

Compassion means being aware of and sympathetic toward others, their needs and troubles. It is cultivated when I feel deep empathy for others. Its opposite is uncaringness.§

Comparing the behavior of one who is compassionate to one who is uncaring§

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Listening to another’s problem, you…§

are genuinely concerned, and ponder ways to help.§

make it clear you are not interested in listening, nor in helping.§

Visiting a home for the elderly, you…§

are aware of their loneliness and try to cheer them up.§

don’t perceive their loneliness and are unmoved.§

After a major earthquake, you…§

brainstorm ways to meet the victims’ needs.§

blame the affected residents for living near a seismic fault.§

Gurudeva explained: “Compassion is defined as conquering callous, cruel and insensitive feelings toward all beings. A compassionate person would tell a plant verbally if he was going to pick from it, intuiting that the plant has feelings of its own. A compassionate person would seek to keep pests away rather than killing them.”§

“Compassion comes from the heart, comes spontaneously. It is a total flow of spiritual, material, intellectual giving, coming unbidden to the receiver.”§

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ASSIGNMENT: These two weeks, seek out someone in need and find practical ways to reduce his or her suffering.§

Date you began this assignment ____________________§

MY THOUGHTS ON THE BENEFITS OF COMPASSION: images§

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