Tirukkural 84: Hospitality

Lakshmi with joyous mind shall dwell in the house of that man who, with cheerful countenance, entertains the good as guests

Image of Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami
If you do not understand your reaction to something, wait until it subsides emotionally, so you will not be upset, then try to understand it by writing about it in a quiet moment. Then burn the paper in an inauspicious fire, such as in a garbage can.
—Gurudeva